The short answer: reply to a rejection email within a day or two with a short, gracious note: thank them for their time, say you enjoyed learning about the role, and, if you’d like, ask for one or two pieces of feedback or to be considered for future roles. Keep it to four or five sentences and don’t argue with the decision. Many employers won’t give detailed feedback, but a professional reply keeps the door open: people who were rejected are sometimes contacted when the chosen candidate declines or a similar role opens. Below are six templates for different situations and what to do with any feedback you get.
Should you reply to a rejection email?
Yes, in most cases, especially after an interview. It takes two minutes and it:
- Leaves a good last impression with people who may hire again.
- Gives you a chance to ask for feedback.
- Keeps you in mind for future openings.
If the rejection came from an automated system after an application with no interview, a reply is optional.
What to include
- Thanks for their time and the opportunity.
- A positive, specific note about the role, team or process.
- Optional: a request for feedback or to be considered for future roles.
- A short, warm close.
Send it within a day or two, from the same email thread.
Six templates
Replace the details in brackets. Keep your reply short: most of these are under 100 words.
1. A simple thank-you
Subject: Re: [Role] at [Company]
Hi [Name],
Thank you for letting me know, and for the time you and the team spent with me. I enjoyed learning about [something specific, such as the team’s plans for the new product], and I’d be glad to be considered for future roles that fit my background.
Best wishes,
[Your name]
2. Asking for feedback
Hi [Name],
Thank you for letting me know, and for considering me for the [Role] position. I appreciated the chance to meet [interviewers’ names].
If you have a moment, I’d be grateful for any feedback on my application or interviews: one or two things I could improve would help me a lot as I continue my search.
Thank you again, and I hope to cross paths in the future.
[Your name]
Ask for one or two points, not a full review; it’s easier to answer.
3. After a final round
Hi [Name],
Thank you for letting me know. Although I’m disappointed, I really enjoyed getting to know the team over the last few weeks, especially [specific conversation or project].
If the chosen candidate doesn’t work out or a similar role opens, I’d be very interested. And if you’re able to share any feedback from the final round, I’d welcome it.
All the best,
[Your name]
4. Staying in touch for future roles
Hi [Name],
Thank you for the update and for your time throughout the process. I’m still very interested in [Company] and in [type of work]. Would it be all right if I connected with you on LinkedIn and kept an eye on future openings?
Best,
[Your name]
5. Replying to a recruiter
Hi [Name],
Thanks for letting me know, and for your help throughout the process. I’d love to stay on your radar for similar roles, at [Company] or with other clients. If there’s anything from the feedback that I should work on, I’d be grateful to hear it.
Best,
[Your name]
6. After a rejection by phone
Hi [Name],
Thank you for taking the time to call me today. I appreciated hearing the decision directly, and the feedback you shared about [point], which I’ll work on. I enjoyed meeting the team and would be glad to be considered for future roles.
Best regards,
[Your name]
What to avoid
- Arguing with the decision or asking them to reconsider.
- Long emails. Four or five sentences is enough.
- Emotional or negative language, even if you’re disappointed.
- Asking for feedback more than once. If they don’t reply, let it go.
- Replying from your phone in a hurry. Proofread; it’s your last impression.
If they don’t give feedback
Many employers don’t share individual feedback after interviews, often as a matter of company policy. Don’t take silence personally. You can still review the interview yourself:
- Which questions felt weakest? Write down how you answered and how you’d answer now.
- Were your answers specific? Vague answers without examples or results are the most common problem.
- Did you connect your experience to their needs?
- Practice those questions out loud before your next interview, or do a mock interview with someone who’ll score your answers.
What to do with feedback you get
- Thank them for it, briefly, even if it’s hard to hear.
- Look for the pattern. One comment may be one interviewer’s view; the same comment from two companies is worth acting on.
- Turn it into practice. If the feedback was “needed more examples”, rehearse your stories with the STAR method until each has a clear result.